To Kiss or Not to Kiss? How to safely navigate a meet & greet in Italy.

(EMAILWIRE.COM, September 29, 2009 ) Â– Miami, FL - The answer seems obvious: To kiss of course! All Italians kiss; all the time. The typical Italian mamma in the pasta sauce commercials embraces guests and smolders them with kisses. I am sure she exists, but I remember very well the summer, when I was in 10th grade and traveled to Tuscany. We went with my friend Maria to visit her Aunt Carla, who opened her door and greeted Maria with plenty of hugs and kisses, just like in the commercials. Maria went on to introduce us and, following her example, we stepped up and hugged and kissed her aunt as well.

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well. Thinking we were so clever with our social skills, we were surprised that our familiarity startled MariaÂ’s aunt and that she clearly was not amused. It was a short visit; we all felt very uncomfortable and were glad when it came time to leave. We had been so proud, thinking we had learned Â“the Italian wayÂ”!

1. DonÂ’t Kiss! It may not seem that way, but Italians do not kiss strangers. Instead they give a light handshake while saying Â“PiacereÂ” and their name.
2. Kiss! Strangers do become friends pretty quick. When it comes to say your goodbyes you may have already transitioned to status of Â“friendÂ” and be kissed. If an Italian kisses you, donÂ’t hesitate, kiss back!
3. Kiss twice! Remember, Italians kiss twice Â– normally left check first, then right.
4. Who to Kiss? Girls kiss girls. Guys kiss girls. Guys usually donÂ’t kiss guys.
5. Kiss kids! This is safe. You can kiss any baby and toddler. Preteens will usually be expected by their parents, to kiss back or even kiss first.

For 30 years Karen Brown, the author, has been the undisputed queen of country side travel whether the countryside is in Europe, the United States or Mexico. Karen loves traveling off the beaten path and discovering hidden gems. She researched and wrote her first Karen Brown's travel guide during her college years at UC Berkeley. Thirty plus years later the Karen Brown series of travel guides has expanded to include seventeen titles. Karen BrownÂ’s books can be found in most bookstores and are available through her website, www.karenbrown.com. When Karen is not traveling and researching the country side, she lives with her husband, Rick and her dog, Merlin on the coast side south of San Francisco, California.

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